Feb
19
2008

Tom Kaulitz says “Fans have to learn to control themselves.”

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Tom of course puts some joking in here, but I hope that people will read this and heed his words. Apparently things were REALLY bad at the concert last night and it just does not have to be that way.

“Frankly, it doesn’t bother me if people scratch me in the back or pull my clothes during a concert…But more seriously, we’ve already heard alarming stories about fans fighting during our concerts or in front of our hotels. Occasionally, when I’m on stage, I’ll even pick out and locate the fans who are behaving badly. Sometimes I want to just put down my guitar and ask them to calm down and behave, but that might really kill the atmosphere. The fans have to learn to control themselves. We’re just normal guys, and, frankly, if they really knew me, they wouldn’t want to see me so badly!”

source One magazine, translation by snell_mouse on LJ

Comments

  1. kaela says:

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    i never been to a concert before but when i go to th’s concert i will be sure to behave. im going to listen to what tom is saying……..and people really need to listen.

  2. Ashleigh says:

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    you americans should be ashamed… lol..

    im joking dont gang up on me..

  3. lauren says:

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    seriously.. this is so freaking true! i was getting completely mauled at the columbus concert and it really takes away from the joy of seeing tokio hotel in concert. i just wish i could go to a show, be close enough to the band to see them, and not have crazy girls around me pushing me and cussing at me! it does get ridiculous.

  4. Katie says:

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    @2 Haha! Fo sho.

    And I HIGHLY doubt that if I knew Tom, I wouldn’t want to know him.
    Highly highly doubt it :)

    I love people with Tom’s style of obscene humor.
    Its very entertaining :D

  5. ashley nichole says:

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    dont put youeslf down tom its not your fault

  6. ashley nichole says:

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    sorry about that not all girls are that way its seriously patheic for ppl to go crazy like that. i mean its childish it makes no sense i agree you guys are just guys its not like you came from heaven or a different planet. dont get me wrong you guys are amazing too watch but not just cos ur hot or whatever because its awsome to see you guys doin what you do best!
    hope you dont think bad of us cos not all of us are that insane!

  7. alyssssaaa says:

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    hun if i really knew u i would deffinatly want u just as badly ; ]

  8. qüLce [ I'm Türkish..] says:

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    Tom somebody my until love !Bite this to your head.Tom for what do i… I scraped T to my arm.Can you do? NO! Because somebody my until love ! .Tom me hear… Who is living for Tom? You one for live, what know ?I know.Time with it spend like happy peaceful… He’s my breath. He without it isn’t becoming! From me who else know that love from it know !!!

  9. Nicole says:

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    I think next time us fans on this site should pick a show thats convenient for all of us to meet up at (When they come back to the US) and show them what respectful fans look like…that just gave American’s a bad name, and who the hell wants that?

  10. Nobbah says:

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    Woohoo Sarah-chan! I totally agree. I’m going to the consert here in Norway as well. Geez people! respect the dudes. If they don’t come back to America you’ll know why. I can’t wait till 7th april! :D

  11. Trine says:

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    If he really means what he’s saying there. Then getting to know him, makes me like him !

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    we are totaly ok with Tom. There are so many fans who are very mad!!! I met a girl (a big fan of tokio hotel) and at the end of the concert in nancy some fans caught her and fought her just to take her place in front of the scene before an deiner seite (ich bin da). After the show, she was crying and she was very sad!!! We are very shocking when we are hearing this type of story. I’ m sorry for my bad english!!! XD ^_^

  13. Raquel says:

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    It should probably be mentioned that Tom said this in an interview that took place BEFORE the North American tour. I can’t remember exactly when, but I do know that I read this before I saw them at the Roxy.

    Also, this quote is kinda taken out of context. He wasn’t talking about any fans from a certain place in particular, he was just talking about the fans in general.

  14. Maiko says:

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    Hi Tom and all people…
    It’s true that all the things he said…
    sometimes, the fans, we’re… bad people with other fans… but…
    Tom you know, Tokio Hotel are our world, our life… because you help us in a difficult times with your lirics…
    REally … you are a good boy, and a pretty boy…
    Tokio Hotel Für immer, für für immer…
    See us in Madrid, 18/03…

    Maiko

  15. Steph says:

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    I think they will come back. They seemed happy.
    Everything is really counting on how their CD will do when it comes out here.

  16. Rebecca says:

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    ok luckily i was in the back and saw none of that shit
    but i did hear ppl pulling hair and like fainting
    and all that crap
    i was probably one of the most well behaved people there
    i dont wanna scare them away
    i want them to come back!!!

  17. sarah says:

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    oooooookay, That stupid, WTF Are you guys thinking about, I wher on one of the concerts of the th, this year, some girl was trying to pull toms closths , i said to that girl , are you fucking fucket up, you never do that, Tokio hotel they are the best, but they are just normal peopel, you guys have to be stupid, Never do that to them, they will like think that , the USA are Some SCREAMING AND SCarY LAND EVER, When they come to norway i will show them som recpet:) , and some happy them time over here.. I love them and all but all the concert i have been on , i never scream or pull bills or toms cloths, NEVER

  18. Katja says:

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    Awwwwwwww!!!!! Im not particularly a Tom fan but he is being a little hard on himself!!! And I was there the girls were ridiculous!!!
    They acted like children!!! Geez if you love them zat much at least be respectful enough to give them some SPACE!!!!! DON’T SUFFICATE THEM!!!! THEN WHO WILL I LOVE?????? :x stupid over obsessive fans!!!

  19. Steph says:

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    Like some other people said it was hard to pay attention like 1/2 the time because it took so much effort to just stay standing in that crowd of people. I like barely remember anything from the first 2 songs. I remember nothing of Black.

    Oh and just for the record I was one of those girls “fighting” over Bill’s towel. But it wasn’t really fighting, more like a very lame tugg of war. It was kinda funny though cuz they were all tugging with 2 hands and I just held on with 1 hand and took a picture with the other hand.
    But I’m kinda embarassed cuz I know it looked so stupid and many people told us so, in dirtier language. And I was very disapointed in myself cuz I missed the boys bowing and then I didn’t get outside fast either.

    So guys even if someones towel goes right at your face, which Bill’s did, do not grab it. It’s so not worth it!

  20. bebe says:

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    lol dont be jessica ^_^ the guys arent stupid when it comes to their fans,, they know they can get crazy, and are probably just wishing that some people would have respect for other fans, and have a blast at their shows, not killing each other ,, i would be grilling my fans if i were famous, but the guys have been really sweet and patient about it so far considering the reactions that they get,
    think about it girlies, what if a group of people turned violent over the sake of a towel or a bottle you had??
    that would freak me out!!!!!

  21. jessica says:

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    I’m embarrassed for us all. :(

  22. mimas says:

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    Yeah, I haven’t been in that rough of a crowd since my last punk concert! I’m glad I wore steel-toe shoes. But why did Tom have to say that? Now I like him even more! ;)

  23. Melanie says:

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    Just to clarify, this quote is from an article that came out a few months ago, so it is not directly related to American fans or the recent NA concerts. But the behavior truly was appalling. Fans honestly just have no respect for each other, and apparently no respect for the band itself and it’s just disgusting.

  24. yk says:

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    i was on the second floor and had the BEST time ever, no pulling, no pushing, no stumbbling over, no yelling into my ear and i had a GREAT view of the stage so i didnt mind the second floor it was awesome….i think TOM meant it for the people that were near the stage, i agree with him espeacially when Bill threw his towel i thought peole were going to kill each other for the towel, my only thought was “KIDS, GROW UP!!!”

  25. maretta says:

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    it’s really sad the fans have no respect for eachother. i was practically trampled the whole time, shoved and had my hair pulled. i could barely even see the band no on had any consideration for the people around them =\

  26. Me says:

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    Esme, you pulled his clothes?

    I agree Riana, the fans contributed a LOT to ruining the experience. It sucked.

  27. Riana says:

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    omg all i can say is that i agree with him 100% and kinda wished he had said something last night. It was insane. half the time i couldn’t really pay attention to them and their music b/c i was trying not to fall over or get pulled down by the sea of people (literally, it was a sea with waves and currents and everything lol) i mean it really is obnoxious when people go that crazy. don’t get me wrong, it was an absolutely AMAZING show and they were amazing beyond words, but the whole i-will-get-to-the-front-no-matter-who-i-hurt attitude of the crowd definitely took away from the experience

  28. esme says:

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    hey i wasn’t fighting or anything but im the one who pulled his clothes
    =)

  29. Valentina says:

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    I’m a little embarrassed and ashamed. ok but American TH fans, What in the world were you thinking????? I swear now they won’t want to come here again!!!! They will think ALL of us are fan girls who don’t have self control. Next time they come here ( if they come back here) Lets leave a GOOD impression on them XD

  30. yk says:

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    wise words…… THANK YOU TOM FOR THIS, i think Bill got tired of repeating this speech lol

  31. Kayla says:

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    i agree with effy and lolaura as well!!!

  32. lolaura says:

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    i agree with effy 100%. this is so wrong. STOP!!!!! we do want them to come back……not scare them.

  33. effy says:

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    I’m so like…. dissapointed reading that. I hope he doesn’t think bad of amerians now, but i guess we’re all just excited to be seeing them for the first time. But jumping on him while he’s performing and fighting in the audience is just wrong.

  34. esme says:

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    hey bebe i know her shai yah shes from texas i licked his water bottle (i know right)

  35. esme says:

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    ahhhaha ahha
    sorry tom that was me!
    i was in the front row right in front of bill and when tom came over when they were done i grabbed his shirt and pulled him closer to the audiance so the girls behind me could touch him =)

  36. bebe says:

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    there’s a saying, ‘from the horses mouth’…… maybe now we can stop shaking our heads over some people, it must really distracting too, they want to have a good time performing and want their fans to have a good time too, wasnt there a story about a girl who was attacked by other fans cause she got tom’s water bottle,,,, now really????

  37. Izzy says:

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    Okay now american girls are really giving us a bad name… Like seriously they don’t want any of there fans hurt so why fight. Thats why in a earlier interview said that american girls have attitudes, well who ever was fighting at the concert is very blah and I want to poke them in the eye with an eraser lol.

    • beccaXXX says:

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      hey, i don’t want to offend you or anything like that. i just wanted to say that i’m an american fan and i’ve never bbehaved like that. i have seen fans go crazy and get in fist fights over them, but i think it’s pathetic and stupid. they are right that american girls have attitudes, but only some. others (like me) are just like you. wow, that sounded stupid, but you know what i mean! lol, anyway, i totally agree with you, and i’ll gladly help you poke other american girls with erasers!

  38. nArNaR says:

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    lol tom…..

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